Getting ready to meet you!
Insights on Love
By Alexander
(I’m not a dating coach)
Hi, beautiful soul! I’m glad you’re here. If there’s even a tiny part of you that still believes in love, or wants to believe again. This space was made for you.
You deserve love that feels real, safe, and joyful. The kind of connection your heart has been quietly hoping for. And I’m here to walk with you on that journey and help you find the man you’ve looking for!
If you’re an independent woman, there’s a place for you here.
You’re welcome to join the community from anywhere in the world. Just a quick note: I live in the U.S., so most events follow Eastern Time. But no matter which country you’re in, you’re part of the community.
This is a new private, online, paid community exclusively for women. Created with care, and grateful to welcome you.
What I Believe
I believe in love and soulmates. Yes! I believe there's a soulmate for everyone. There's someone out there meant for each of us. And of course, I believe in love in all its forms and expressions. I also believe in stable relationships, life partnership and/or marriage and the values it represents.
I believe women have the power to change the world, even more than men. I also believe in the power of feminine energy.
One goal
I created Insights on Love to help women find the love they are looking for. Not games. Not guesswork. But real connection. A healthy, aligned relationship that grows with time, and if you desire it, one that leads to a life partnership and/or marriage. But more than that… I created this space to hold hope. To remind women that no matter how hard dating has been, you're not alone, you can build a lovely life.
A Safe Space, Just for Women
This is a private, ladies-only community. No men. No scams.
To keep this space sacred, we ask every member to apply and verify their identity. Once you're approved, you’ll gain full access and be warmly welcomed inside.
Here, you can share your thoughts, stories, struggles, and wins. Vulnerability is honored, and your privacy is protected.
We value respect above all. You’ll encounter many perspectives here, and while everyone is welcome to share, we ask that you do so with kindness and care.
One purpose
My goal is that one day, you no longer need this community because you’ve found what you were seeking. Whether it’s love, a lifelong relationship, marriage, clarity, or the confidence to step into a new chapter in your life. I want you to graduate from this space stronger than when you arrived. And whenever you want to return, of course you’ll always be welcome.
Membership Details
$43/month - Tier One pricing. Since this is a new community, you’ll be part of the first circle of women joining this space. Cancel anytime, and come back whenever you like.
Refund policy: You have 60 calendar days to explore the community and request a full refund if it doesn’t feel right for you. Just send me an email. I’ll handle it with care..
Who This Is For
This community is for; if:
You’re single, dating, in a relationship, in a situationship, engaged, divorced, married, widowed, or somewhere in between.
You’re looking for real love and a fresh perspective.
You want general guidance, direction, learn from the men’s perspective, sisterhood, and space to grow.
Please note: This is not a therapy or counseling service. I don’t offer private sessions either.
If you need deeper counseling, I strongly encourage you to speak with a licensed professional, whether a psychologist, therapist, or counselor. Getting that kind of support is not only wise, but brave.
With warmth,
Alexander
One message can change the course of your life.
Benefits of the First Circle of Members
Since this is a brand-new community, the first circle of members will enjoy something special, not only the Tier One pricing, but also a closer, more personal connection in how I interact with the community as we grow. While there will still be no private consultations, I’ll make sure you feel cozy and cared for with thoughtful touches, extra check-ins, and little details that make our space feel warm and welcoming. This special privilege will be available for a limited period, just while our community is small and intimate. As we grow, my way of connecting will naturally shift, so being part of this first circle means you’ll experience the most personal version of Insights of Love.
What you’ll receive
When you join Insights of Love you're stepping into a space designed to support your heart, your growth, and your path to real love.
Here’s what you’ll have access to:
1. Community Events & Conversations. Live and recorded sessions hosted by Alexander, where we explore topics like self-love, how to search for love?, emotional healing, understanding men, how attract love, and creating space for aligned, lasting relationships. Some gatherings are deep conversations; others might just be coffee and connection while I paint. It’s all about creating real moments, together.
2. A Private, Women-Only Community. A safe, intimate space where you can share stories, ask questions, and reflect on your journey, surrounded by women who are in the same path.
You don’t need to post or comment to belong. Just being here is enough. In other words you can be a passive member.
For new members: A Gentle Welcome Challenge. Designed for new members, this challenge help you settle in, reflect on love, and reconnect with yourself. Whether you're active or prefer to observe quietly, you can move at your own pace, one step at a time. No pressure, just presence. You don’t need to share with the community. This is your private journey.
What to expect
Insightful, heart-centered guidance on dating, love, and life.
A space filled with hope, clarity, and direction.
Reflections that may resonate with your life.
A deeper understanding of the masculine perspective.
A community where healing is honored and growth is celebrated.
Real-life success love stories and testimonies that inspire.
A space free from algorithms and data analysis. Just real connections.
Learn how to build a real connection with a man.
Note: Alexander will read everything and engage with the community as a whole, rather than getting into individual messages, posts, or comments. His responses are guided by care and connection, not by routine or obligation. He’s here to engage meaningfully and with fondness, not mechanically, always aiming to speak thoughtfully from the heart. He may reply to posts, comments and messages.
When the time is right, we’ll welcome a female expert to help support emotional balance in the community (though not for offering individual consultations).
What not to expect
Private consultation, direct communication or internal messages. I don’t offer one-on-one consultation.
Therapy or professional counseling. For that, I encourage you to seek a licensed expert.
No dating tricks, tactics, or seduction strategies.
Negativity. This is a space for encouragement, not judgment.
Before-and-after testimonials. Your journey is private. I won’t ask to share it as a success story in public. Your growth stays yours.
No “nice guy” space. Emotional dumping or ongoing venting. I’m not here to be the “nice guy” who carries everyone’s emotional weight. This space was created for clarity, inspiration, connection, and emotional insight, exclusive around love and dating. Let’s keep the energy supportive, intentional, and focused.
How It Works
I host regular events, some live, some recorded, where I engage with the whole community. I share conferences, talks, my personal path as well, questions and answers I received from members, and stories that resonate with your life.
You’re welcome to participate however feels right for you: comment in the space, submit your story privately, or simply listen and reflect.
If you're not comfortable sharing in the community space and prefer more privacy, you’re welcome to send me a direct message through the platform. While I don’t offer private consulting, I do read everything. I gather the themes and reflections shared, even privately, and bring them back into our shared conversations, so your voice is always part of the space. (Of course, without mentioning you.)
My goal is to help you move forward with love, confidence, and clarity. Not to keep you here forever, but to help you walk out into the world with an renewed heart.
Alexander
Why I Started This Community
Like many of you, I’ve been on my own journey through love, heartbreak, and everything in between. I’m a divorced guy (no kids) and being in the dating pool for some time. I’ve experienced beautiful connections, moments that felt like they belonged in a movie. The kind of romance that’s deep, passionate, sweet, exciting… and sometimes, unfinished.
Through those experiences, I began to notice something that moved me deeply: so many amazing women I crossed paths with, whether I dated them or simply knew them, were longing for real love, yet quietly struggling with fear, trust, or emotional exhaustion. Sometimes, even when something genuine began to form, they pulled away, or sabotage, unsure if they could believe in it.
It wasn’t about doing anything wrong. It was about pain that hadn’t fully healed. Walls that had built up. Old stories whispering, “This is too lovely to be true.”, etc. You probably know what I’m talking about. It’s like they found what they were looking for, and then just dropped it.
And I saw that this wasn’t unique to one woman or one culture. It was universal. Women from all walks of life, different countries/cultures, different beliefs, were experiencing similar patterns of holding back, questioning themselves, or guarding their hearts.
But what also stood out to me was this: despite it all, they still had hope.
Beneath every heartbreak, there was a quiet, steady longing for true connection. For love that feels safe. For a relationship built on real depth and mutual respect.
That’s why I created Insights on Love, to offer a space of clarity, reflection, direction, support, inspiration, and sisterhood. A space for women to reconnect with the world of men, receive general guidance, recognize the right man when he appears, reflect on why they (you girl) may not feel deeply happy in love, and rediscover what real love is meant to feel like.
I’ve gathered stories, my own and those around me, and I share them here with the hope that you’ll see yourself not in the pain, but in the possibility.
You are not alone. And you are worthy of the love you’ve been hoping for.
Keep going, girl, happiness is just around the corner.
With heart,
Alexander
About Alexander
I’m an entrepreneur, artist-painter, and the heart behind this community.
I don’t claim to have all the answers, which is why, when the time is right, I plan to welcome a licensed female psychologist into the community. She’ll help maintain emotional balance in the community and thoughtfully respond to your reflections and comments with care and insights aligned with the community's values.
As a man, I don’t speak for all men, but I’ve spent years listening deeply to women. This space wasn’t created to ‘fix’ anyone, but to reconnect us. I bring the masculine perspective with respect, humility, and heart. Good point, I don’t claim to be a dating coach or life coach.
I was born in Colombia in 1982, and since 2010, I’ve called Miami, Florida home. Life has taken me through many chapters: marriage, divorce, reinvention, and rediscovery. Through it all, I’ve grown into a man who values emotional connection, feminine energy, and the quiet power of love more than ever.
I’ve spent over a decade building businesses and speaking to international audiences, but in 2020, I discovered a new form of expression: painting. Roses and elephants became my symbols, vulnerability and strength wrapped in softness.
Roses remind me of the tender beauty in love. Elephants, with their quiet wisdom and deep memory, inspire me to stay grounded. They reflect so much of what I see in humanity: strength guided by sensitivity.
If you’d like to get to know me a little more, feel free to visit my personal or business profiles.
My personal IG @alexander.great_ I share bits of my personal life and all my Art work. To my business link click-here.
Best,